Monday, November 5, 2012
Just say "You're Welcome!"
She: "Thank you for all you do."
Me: "Oh, I don't do anything."
Another She: "I like your hair."
Same Old Me (with scrunched up face): "Today was hair washing day, and I didn't wash it."
Me: "The massage you gave me took about ten pounds off of my shoulders. Thank you!"
Another She: "That's great!"
I am tired of negating what people say. I might as well be telling them that they are crazy and I don't believe them. I want to learn from the Another She that just said, "That's great!" I want to just celebrate or say "You're welcome!" when people compliment or thank me.
Here I am, wanting Dharma to immediately stop her chewing habit-of-a-lifetime, and I (so far) have not been able to stop my habit of being a poor compliment acceptor.
Maybe I need to ask people to give me treats or at least pet my hair and tell me what a good girl I am when I gracefully accept their compliments. I might learn faster that way...
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